No matter how bad it gets, your goal can not be to go around poking people in the eyes with sharp sticks. If you find yourself with a desire to go poke someone in the eye with a sharp stick, pause. Why would that be your objective? You aren’t after punishment, you’re after better. Keep your goal in mind. Your goal is better. Your goal is growth. Your goal is making it possible for them to do this on their own so you don’t even have to do this anymore.